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Becoming an Uchideshi,
or How to Train Seriously in Japan
by Patrick Augé
Originally published in the AikiNews 1995 Dojo Finder
During the last few years, several of my students
have been preparing themselves to experience the uchideshi life in Japan.
I have also received requests from Aiki News readers who, having read my interview
in AikiNews #91, wanted to know more about how to go about becoming an uchideshi.
Although, under the guidance of my teachers, I had prepared myself quite
seriously for the life that was awaiting me in Japan, I realized that I was
able to accept the many unexpected situations I regularly encountered because
of my clear goals and my formal education. The failures of many ill-prepared
young people have also convinced me of the necessity of gathering my thoughts
in writing.
All opinions and advice given here are the result
of my on-going experiences and observations. They do not constitute final
answers and should be considered as guidelines that can lead the aspiring
uchideshi to find their own ways according to their own circumstances. However,
due to the conservative nature of the Japanese budo world, much of this advice
will apply to anyone. In fact, with the exception of situations arising from
actually living with one's teacher, the uchideshi experience is not so different
from that faced by anyone entering into a serious relationship with a Japanese
teacher in Japan. I think, however, that the uchideshi experience takes
a student one step farther, since the student lives with the teacher. It's
a twentyfour-hour-a-day matter.
What is an uchideshi?
Uchideshi means literally "inside student."
We can compare this to the old system of apprenticeship in which the apprentice
lived with a master artisan and his family in order to learn his trade. Present
day democracy, with its emphasis on individual rights and mass education,
discourages this kind of system. This accounts for many of the failures of
would-be uchideshi I have observed over the years.
According to the tradition of some schools,
only uchideshi could receive such certificates of mastery as the menkyo kaiden.
[Editor's note: issues such as licenses and transmission vary greatly between
traditions, schools, or styles, and even between dojos.] It was felt that
only through experiencing daily life with the teacher could a student learn
an art beyond its technical appearance. This may have been true during the
era when budo had its secrets. Nowadays anyone can learn budo—instruction
through studios, dojo, seminars, and videos is easily available, and this
gives the false impression that there is little else to learn. While this
may apply to the majority of budo students (who certainly do their best by
attending two or three sessions a week), the serious student who aspires
to go beyond the average level of training provided by most schools needs
another dimension, even if he or she comes to the dojo every day. By becoming
an uchideshi with a good teacher, you can learn to draw energy from inside
yourself rather than relying on tricks for motivation. This is an essential
quality for an uchideshi to acquire. You will need it at all ages in order
to improve yourself constantly through training and teaching. By observing
the daily life of an uchideshi, we may get a better understanding of this
concept.
Before considering any technical instruction and
training, the uchideshi must take care of countless dojo matters. Cleaning
up, cooking, answering the phone, taking care of visitors, preparing the
furo (bath), shopping, doing repairs, opening and closing the dojo, turning
on and off the lights before and after classes— these are all part of the
uchideshi's responsibilities. The uchideshi must constantly use imagination
and common sense in order to solve all the unexpected problems that arise.
In addition to that you must train daily (often on your own during the daytime),
assist your teacher, teach classes, etc. By taking care of such daily tasks
yourself, your teacher will be able to concentrate on more important matters,
which will in turn benefit you.
As an uchideshi you must be available anytime
your teacher needs you. This can result in great learning opportunities,
particularly if some teacher is visiting, when traveling with your teacher
(in my experience, uchideshi receive excellent treatment when traveling with
their teacher), if a book is in the making, or when your teacher simply needs
a partner for his own research.
Japanese budo teachers are well known for their
unpredictability. You may expect your teacher to call you in the middle of
the night to inform you of your immediate departure for some destination.
The teacher may decide on a last minute change to a planned demonstration,
and he can also change his mind on anything without notice. The uchideshi's
mental flexibility is constantly tested to its limits. This can be aggravated
by physical fatigue, lack of sleep, or injuries.
You are entitled to refuse, and you may leave
at anytime. But as an uchideshi you also become aware that such training
provides you with the opportunity to forge your mind (seishin tanren), although
it may not be obvious at the moment. This will enable you to face life's
difficulties with patience, perseverance, and flexibility. Budo teachers
in particular need this quality since the profession enjoys little recognition,
even in Japan where professional budo teachers are often regarded as eccentrics.
I have heard of some cases in which teachers
or sempai (senior students) abused the uchideshi and it may be true. However,
I have not witnessed this in my own experience. Those whom I heard complaining
Japanese and foreign students alike) were obviously preparing an excuse to
change their priorities in order to return to a more comfortable lifestyle.
After having idolized their teachers, they had suddenly become aware of the
teachers' humanity and could not cope with this realization. The Japanese
language has an expression for this, "jibun ni amai," which means "sweet
to oneself," a frequent cause of failure in all areas of life.
Whether your teacher is wealthy or not, as an
uchideshi you are expected to pay for accommodation and training fees as well.
It is part of study. Unless you have enough money saved or receive support
from your parents (which is seldom the case for obvious reasons), you will
have to find jobs.that do not conflict with chores and training. It may be
language lessons at odd hours, tutoring students, driving drinkers around
late at night, or the like.
Many foreign students fail as uchideshi due
to a strong belief in their rights to make a living. First they "temporarily"
teach language lessons during the most convenient evening hours, which often
conflict with training times, in order to prepare themselves a "cushion,"
with the intention of finding other lessons or jobs later on. However, they
quickly realize that the money is good (although this has changed somewhat
due to the recession and to the increasing number of foreigners in Japan)
and that they could not make such an income in their own country. These students
show up less and less for practice, are often late, or leave early. They
regularly skip dojo chores but appear for social events. Chronic injuries
seem to be the most common excuse I have heard. Nevertheless, the teacher
or the sempai will demand that they move out of the dojo when it has become
obvious that their priority to make money has overtaken their desire to study.
Benefits of uchideshi training
One of the most enriching experiences of the
uchideshi life is what I call "back to basics." No matter who you are or where
you come from, as an uchideshi you start from nothing. By facing solitude
every instant, you can learn to live in the present and assume responsibility
for your own destiny. You come to realize that fate results from your thoughts,
which in turn breed emotions. Thoughts can be controlled, while emotions
cannot. Emotions can be temporarily repressed, but will never change unless
the thoughts underlying them are changed. This is very hard to understand
fully if you are not in control of your own life and never take the time to
be all by yourself. Life at the dojo runs at a different pace and this is
conducive to the discovery of a variety of outlooks on existence.
Another major benefit of living in the dojo is the
realization that there is no one way to do anything. Through daily life, every
event becomes an opportunity to grow. By living close to your teacher, you
can observe how he deals with life, in the same way children learn patterns
of behavior from their parents. You can see how your teacher keeps training
himself and evolves in spite of age, injuries, disease, and other difficulties.
A good teacher will expect his students to develop in their own unique ways
and to evolve beyond what he has taught them without spoiling them, just as
a loving parent will do what he or she knows is best for a child, regardless
of what the child may think about it. This cannot be achieved through long
lectures, but happens rather through unexpected questions' short comments,
challenging requests and evasive answers to questions. Often the student
will not understand on the spot, but keeping an open mind and remembering
the event will lead to flashes of understanding in the future, sometimes many
years later. Such training will teach the student to find his or her own
solutions to problems without having to depend on ready-made answers provided
by gurus and popular doctrines.
On the other hand, at many dojo, external students
who come to the dojo only to attend training sessions may physically perform
better, since they have more time to rest and often eat better food. However,
their commitment is different. They tend to deal with their difficulties
by staying away from the dojo. Since their practice is often primarily physical,
they have fewer chances to experiment the mind-body relationship. As a result,
their evolution tends to depend mostly on their physical condition. Such
students are liable to stop training as their bodies change with age.
Becoming an uchideshi is like being born anew.
It provides the student with the continuous opportunity to look at life from
different perspectives.
Preparing for uchideshi life
It is essential to understand your motives for wanting
to become an uchideshi. If you want to be in charge of your own life, and
to improve yourself constantly, then you must be willing to give up the
"me-first" attitude that characterizes our junk-oriented society and replace
it with the "being-of-service-to-others" attitude that is the first step
towards understanding the judo principle of "mutual welfare and prosperity."
Meditate on those words, and if you feel inside of yourself that you are
ready to do whatever it takes to find the path, then the uchideshi life may
be for you. However, I warn you to think well, since you will know for certain
only if you do it. Confidence comes from doing, not trying.
How long you should plan to study as an uchideshi
is an individual decision, but count on a minimum of two years. This should
give you enough time to find your path and come to a deeper understanding
of the language and of the culture. If you stay too long, you run the risk
of feeling so comfortable in your lifestyle that you will lose touch with
reality. It is true that the futility of most people's lives, driven by an
endless quest for material accumulation, will seem obvious and maybe disgusting
after you have spent several years as an uchideshi. However, if you want
to become an effective teacher, in due time, you will recognize the existence
of material things as means, not as ends. Keep in mind that your teacher
may assign you to teach anywhere, anytime, and you must be prepared to move,
even if you think that you are not ready. True evolution and maturity will
come when you are on your own.
Japanese people are generally kind to foreigners.
But there are no free rides and a lot will be expected from you in return.
In Japan, everything is linked—privacy, work, social life. If you behave
yourself properly, then your teacher back home will be praised. If you goof
up continually, then he or she will be blamed for sending you unprepared.
Consequently, the first step is to talk to your teacher and follow his or
her advice. If you belong to an organization that has a hombu dojo (main school)
in Japan, then your teacher should be familiar with the proper procedure.
If your school has no hombu dojo or connections with Japan, then matters may
be more difficult. You will have to do some research on your own. In any
case, you should follow your teacher's advice. Be patient and take a little
extra time in order to prepare yourself.
A word of caution. Your teacher may encourage
you, but may also feel threatened by your plans. If you intend to open a
dojo after your return, make sure that you will not be competing with your
teacher. Make your intentions clear from the outset. Bear in mind also that
your own students will one day treat you the same way you treated your teacher.
A good first step is to observe your attitude
in the dojo and correct the blunders for which foreign students are famous.
Do it now, since in Japan nobody will tell you until you have gone too far,
a situation that is very easy for a gaijin (foreigner) to get into.
In a Japanese dojo, salutations are mandatory
upon arrival and departure. Beginners and yudansha (black belts) treat each
other with similar respect. Start doing so now, no matter what others think
about it. Also if you ever miss class, notify your teacher, and always apologize
when you are late for practice. This will force you to be honest with yourself
and in the process you will be taken seriously.
Remain silent during practice, even if everyone
else is verbalizing whatever they are doing. Budo is meditation in motion.
In a traditional, strictly-run Japanese dojo, no one talks. This facilitates
concentration and awareness, and allows the students to respond more easily
to any instructions that are given to them. You must also politely acknowledge
all remarks from your teacher and seniors. Never talk back or say "I know,"
or "I was going to..." after being corrected. You are coming to the dojo
to learn. If you take your teacher's or your sempai's comments as an attack
against your dignity, then you have a problem and your priorities have to
be reassessed. Erase from your vocabulary self-limiting expressions such as
"I can't," "I wish I had," "I should have," "I'll try," "I'm not good at,"
and the like. Replace them instead with "I'm going to find away," "This is
what I must do," "I'll do it," "I can improve that." Practice it. This will
help you find alternatives and develop a sense of responsibility for yourself.
Practice being quiet when you do something.
No noisy music, no TV, no unnecessary chatting for a few days, until it becomes
natural. Travel alone to some unknown place, do some solo camping. Your strength
will depend on your ability to stay alone.
In Japanese dojo, sometimes teaching seems to
be quite irrational, especially to Westerners who are used to systematic
pedagogy and "positive reinforcement." Techniques change constantly and come
in any order, and everyone wants you to do a certain technique "their" way,
oblivious to the fact that someone just showed you another way. Do not let
frustration distract you. Concentrate on learning the "new" way. By accepting
this process, you will end up adapting instead of having to rely on memory
to cope with different situations.
If you do not agree with something, make a habit
of listening and then taking some time to think about it. Then the whole situation
will appear from a different perspective, often to your advantage. Your
patience will be challenged, especially when dealing with insincere or negligent
visitors (Japanese and foreigners alike) who try to take advantage of everything
and everybody. You may also have to deal with other uchideshi, sempai and
kohai alike, whatever their levels of competency.
Remember that you are being watched and tested.
Your acceptance by your monjin (dojo mates) will depend on your attitude.
I often heard that in Japan, you are never completely accepted. It may be
true when dealing with occasional careless or arrogant individuals or drunks.
But in reality, most of the people of Japan are ready to open their hearts
to those who respect them and make an effort to understand them and their
customs.
As an uchideshi,you are expected to look for
jobs that need to be done without being asked. If you arrive when people
are busy with some preparation, do not ask if you can help when some tasks
obviously have to be done. If you notice something that needs to be picked
up, cleaned up, or repaired, do it right away or someone else will. You want
to develop your ki, your awareness? Start your training at home.
In Japan, energy is very expensive. Make a habit
of turning off lights, the TV, and other appliances when you do not need them
or when you leave the room. Take cold showers. Many dojo do not have running
hot water, some have only a Japanese-style bath. You will have to observe
what other people are doing. In most cases, the teacher and his family will
take their bath first. Most dojo have no heating or air conditioning systems.
Expect living quarters to be very cold in winter and quite humid and hot
in summer. You want to forge your mind and your body? Practice concentrating
on your tasks under such hard conditions.
Wash your keikogi (practice uniform) frequently—after
every practice if you sweat heavily. Japanese people are quite sensitive
to odors. Wash pans and dishes right after using them. Put food and leftovers
away, wipe tables, sink and cooking facilities immediately. It will help
keep rats and cockroaches away. Return all tableware to the common area after
use, even if they belong to you. Again, you will show your concern for others
by doing so.
Train yourself to eat all sorts of foods. It
will help you open your mind. Strong likes and dislikes indicate a lack of
balance. If you are serious about studying budo, do not let such trivial
matters distract you. You just have to set your mind to it and your body
will accept.
Start studying Japanese. There are plenty of courses
available. Japanese is not a difficult language to learn, it just takes more
time than most languages. You do not need to master the language. Study the
basics and learn enough vocabulary to be able to get by and build up on your
own during your stay in Japan. Languages are like budo. If you master the
fundamental principles, you will progress and a fascinating world will open
to you. Claiming to be bad at languages is another self-limiting excuse.
Another common cause of failure among uchideshi,
Japanese and foreign alike, has been malnutrition. I have seen people with
wonderful talent and motivation ruin their health and their bodies because
they could not recover from injuries and fatigue, primarily due to their
poor eating habits. You must discipline yourself to eat properly, with what
is available where you live. Your teacher will not have to worry about your
health and you will save his attention for other more important matters.
Learn how to cook, especially basic things such
as rice, misoshiru (fermented bean paste soup), salad, tofu, stir-fry vegetables,
etc. In Japan, restaurants are generally too expensive for most budgets and
those that are more affordable use low grade ingredients, a lot of sodium,
Ajinomoto (MSG), fat, and starch. I n spite of their appearance, portions
are also too small for the average Westerner. Bear in mind that the restaurant's
business is to make money. By learning how and where to shop, you can eat
quite well at a reasonable price. This is one of the factors that will help
you maintain your health and set an example for your own students after you
become a teacher.
Japanese people have their own table manners.
They are also quite familiar with Western table manners. If you have any
doubts about yours, get a tune up. Make sure you know how to use knife, fork,
and spoon properly, don't cut up or mix all the food in your plate before
eating, don't play with food while talking, don't chew with your mouth open...
Whenever you are invited to eat, do not pounce on the food, and control your
hunger despite your host's encouragement to eat more. Be proud of your origins,
but never give anyone a chance to put you down due to ignorance of some fundamental
rules of etiquette.
Some Japanese boys and men act and talk quite
rudely, often in the presence of females. Such a macho attitude is to certain
people the Japanese equivalent of being "cool." Don't laugh, especially in
the presence of street punks (whom you will easily identify), who may take
it as a provocation. Ignore it, both in and out of the dojo.
Dealing with injuries is another reality you
will have to face. Japanese budo students' attitude towards injuries differs
from their Western counterparts. Although injuries should not be inflicted
either to others or to oneself for any reason, they cannot be avoided in the
context of learning budo. Do not expect to make anyone feel bad nor to get
any sympathy. When injured, it's your responsibility to deal with it. You
will end up a stronger person and in addition you will learn how to practice
while avoiding injuries. If you are injured, come to the dojo (if you can
reasonably do it) and do whatever you can. A good exercise consists in observing
the practice by sitting quietly on the side. Focus on the good students, visualizing
yourself in one of them, and anticipating each move... You can devise your
own mental exercises based on this method. Take anything that occurs as an
opportunity to learn. There are always alternatives. However, on the practical
side, buy National Health Insurance, which is affordable and easily available
at the local city office for anyone staying in Japan for more than three
months.
Your impression upon your first arrival in Japan
is that you have landed on another world, a tiny and clean planet where everything
has its place but you. Homesickness is another common cause of failure among
foreign uchideshi. It may lead to malnutrition, injuries, disease, and romances
with disastrous consequences. I have seen some uchideshi who quit everything
and left for home in a moment of depression. Mature people do not succumb
to homesickness since they consider change to be a learning experience and
enjoy every moment of it. Before reaching this state of mind, however, you
will need to exercise sheer willpower. If you can make it through the first
six months, then you can stay another six, and so on. Such strength of character
will help if your teacher assigns you to represent him somewhere since you
will probably have to be entirely self-sufficient, from obtaining a visa to
financing your operations.
Never let the desire to quit invade your mind
or you will not recover. Quitting is like a drug—it brings quick and sweet
relief followed by deep depression and lasting grief.
What is willpower, then, and how do you develop
it? This sounds a little old-fashioned. Salespeople of the "no-pain-easy-gain"
popular doctrines never use it, because it does not sell. Willpower is the
ability to do the things that you do not like and that are necessary in order
to do the things that you do like. Willpower is like a muscle, if you train
it, it grows. With time, it becomes an attitude. Willpower is what allows
ordinary people to make up for lack of talent and become experts. It's the
indomitable spirit. To train willpower, start by doing on a regular basis
all the little things that you don't like or usually neglect to do, such
as sleeping on the floor, getting up early, taking cold showers, cleaning
up, cooking, controlling your thirst and hunger, sitting straight, listening
to others. Focus on one or two at a time until you are comfortable with them.
If something bothers you and if it does not conflict with your principles,
just think about it, visualizing the advantages. The fact that you are willing
to think about it is the first step toward removing the obstruction. Daily
life offers many opportunities to brain and improve oneself. If after a while
you still see no improvement, keep it up! We are the sum total of years
of thinking and doing. It takes more than a few weeks to change. Practice
willpower and it will grow slowly but surely. Understanding will come later.
Relationships with persons of the opposite sex
are a delicate matter for a foreigner in Japan. Japanese budo teachers are
often quite conservative in this regard. As long as this does not affect
your attitude or your practice, and as long as it does not bring problems
to the dojo, your teacher will pretend to ignore any relationships you might
establish outside of the dojo. In spite of what you might have seen in the
West, never bring "special friends" to the dojo in order to impress them
with your skills.And never invite them to your living quarters! Keep your
relationships separate from the dojo. Never become emotionally involved with
your teacher's children, family members, or students. The dojo is not a hunting
ground for sexual partners. Your teacher and your sempai will not tolerate
such conduct. In the Western way of thinking, this attitude is considered
an invasion of privacy and that is why so many people can never accomplish
anything. Your teacher has a responsibility to let you know what is wise and
proper, for you, for the other person involved, and for the reputation of
his dojo. What you think of it is your own choice. However, when you have
your own students, remember that you will have to deal effectively with this
sort of situation when it occurs, so that you can stay focused on your teaching.
One of the best pieces of advice I was given
was to complete my education before leaving for Japan. Japan has one of the
highest standards of education in the world. In addition to the fact that
it may make it easier for you to support yourself through teaching, it will
help you make friends. Many Japanese people have a prejudice against budo,
largely due to the way the military authorities used it in the past to manipulate
young people for belligerent purposes. They often wonder why someone they
consider intelligent and educated has an interest in such an old-fashioned
activity. After knowing you, they may rethink their position and send their
children to the dojo. Another advantage of having completed your education
will be obvious when you start a dojo—the sort of student you will appeal
to will have a major impact on the future of your dojo. If you are not sure
of what subject to study, choose a field that is related to budo, such as
physical education, business administration, or philosophy. Do not get involved
in something because of possible job openings in the future or in afield that
is completely dependent on a technology that can become obsolete at any time.
This leads to the next bit of advice: do not
go to Japan because you are unemployed, bankrupt, or heartbroken. Changing
your location will not solve your problems. In Japan, nobody will sympathize,
since escaping is considered to be a shameful solution. Your attitude will
speak louder than your words. One of the first things that I learned in Japan
is that people tend to hide the truth in order to avoid embarrassment to
themselves and to others. As a result of this they develop a deep sense of
perception that enables them to know more about you than you might think.
Japan is a society based on teacher-student
relationships. Consequently, the role of hierarchy must be understood and
respected. Most Japanese dojo are ruled by the sempai-kohai (senior-junior)
system. No matter what your rank nor how long you have been studying budo,
you will start as a kohai. You will have to consult with the senior students
before approaching the main teacher with any important request that may affect
the dojo or create a precedent. Many Westerners have a hard time understanding
this. I will explain.
Many budo teachers owe their survival to students
who voluntarily support the management, organization, and maintenance of the
dojo through their various skills and financial help. Naturally, the sempai
expect to be part of the decision-making process for all matters that concern
the dojo. By consulting with the sempai, you will show your concern for
their situation, you will gain their respect and their acceptance. You will
also strengthen the bonds that will keep you together forever.
Be aware that whatever you do will have an effect
on the way other foreigners will be treated after you. Many teachers like
to have foreign students. Nobody is a prophet in his own country. The presence
of one or more foreigners in a dojo constitutes proof of recognition and this
may bring more native students who will be willing to pay attention to what
the teacher has to teach. However, if foreign students pose a threat to
the smooth functioning of the dojo (such as getting all the teacher's attention
to themselves and continually ignoring the local monjin's existence), the
sempai will eventually refuse to cooperate and the door will be closed to
foreigners.
Physical preparation
Before making arrangements for your stay, you
must train yourself. Once in Japan, you will discover that you could have
prepared yourself still better. You will have to deal with so many crises
on a daily basis, particularly in the first few months, that it will be
too late to learn what you could have learned before. The initial impression
that you make on people will have a determining effect on the success of
your stay. And you never get a second chance to make a first impression!
Your physical preparation will help you endure
workouts that are usually longer and more vigorous than in foreign dojo, although
nowadays the tendency is towards a similar level of intensity. For example,
you should run, train with weights and weapons, and engage in long practices
with one or two partners, increasing the time by five minutes a week, until
you can workout for one hour without interruption. Practice attacks with
bag and makiwara (striking pad), looking for speed and precision. The point
to remember is that you develop the energy system that corresponds to your
regular pace of training. Set goals for yourself and start your program
of personal braining. As your level of concentration improves, you will be
able to monitor your progress and adjust your exercises accordingly. Again,
the sooner you begin to train yourself, the better prepared you will be.
Once you have arrived in Japan, you will experience
jetlag for a few days. You will want to start practicing as soon as possible.
Another word of caution here. Freshly arrived foreign students tend to rush
enthusiastically into vigorous practice, without listening to their bodies
and without realizing that the monjin are also eager to test them. This is
the time most injuries occur. It is worth waiting two or three days before
you join regular practice. In Japan, if you put on your keikogi, you are expected
to complete the practice.
Some enthusiastic monjin may challenge you.
Do not take it personally, but the way you deal with it will definitely determine
people's attitude towards you. Since Westerners are generally stronger and
stiffer than Japanese, they tend to resist when their partners do not apply
their techniques properly or in a way with which they are not familiar. On
the other hand, Japanese are generally faster and more flexible, which is
a cause of frustration for their foreign partners and often leads to injury.
Forget your ego and accept the situation as an opportunity to learn.
Your Japanese teacher may request that you study
one or two other martial arts. At some dojo, students engage regularly in
sumo and/or judo practice after regular workouts. Take it as an opportunity
to gain more experience even if you have no plans to become an expert in
these other arts. If you want to be strong and respected, you must be familiar
with other ways.
You may also find that warm-ups before practice
are insufficient or that no one warms up. Look at the average age of the seniors.
Do they participate in practice, do they take ukemi (breakfalls)? Your answer
may give you a valuable hint as to the importance of warming up properly.
Take action. Arrive earlier and warm up on your own.
Most dojo have soji (clean up), before and/or
after practice. At some dojo, only the kohai clean up, while at others everyone
does it. Set an example, get a broom first and do not hesitate to prod the
young students who often are shy and need directions.
Some sempai like to go out to drink after practice
sessions. Do not get involved with this custom on a regular basis or your
health and your budget won't last long. However, observing people while drinking
may give you important clues as to those people's real characters, which may
be quite useful in the future. [Editors note: for groups that do not have
a permanent dojo of their own (and there are many very respectable such situations
in Japan), these after-practice sessions are an important part of the group
culture. There's no need to go out every time, but if you want to be a full
member of the group, do attend regularly. Drink juice, if necessary, but
do not skip this chance to tsukiai ("schmooze," "hang-out together"). Frequently
budgets are taken into consideration, and those who can afford less are partially
subsidized by those who have more.]
Financial preparation
In Japan everything is expensive—food, accommodation,
transportation, energy. You will need twice as much money to support yourself
as in North America. For this you must save enough to survive five or six
months without having to work. I have seen too many foreigners who arrived
in Japan without a return ticket or sufficient funds, expecting to be helped.
In most cases, monjin and people associated with the dojo helped in the beginning,
but got bred of it as it became obvious that the foreigner's lack of financial
preparation was mostly due to carelessness. By being prepared, you will show
that you are serious and others will be more willing to help you if necessary.
You will also be in a better position to repay their favors, which is a custom
that you must carefully follow if you are planning to stay in Japan and maintain
ties with its people, both for your sake and you r future students' as well.
You must also be prepared for unexpected expenses such as buying snacks,
food, and drinks for all sorts of occasions, such as informal gatherings after
practice, taking visitors out, and the like. If you go out with someone, play
it safe by expecting to pay for the entire bill. If they insist on treating
you, find an opportunity later to treat them.
Never use lack of money as an excuse. In Japan, people
use this as a joke when they do not want to mention the real reason for not
doing something. Japanese people are big savers by education. This way they
are prepared for anything. In Japan, loans and credit are not things to
talk about, since their systematic use indicates a lack of self-discipline,
although this attitude has been gradually changing.
Finding a teacher and a dojo
Japan has many fine and dedicated teachers.
However not many teachers take uchideshi and only a few dojo have an uchideshi
program. There are many reasons for this. Young people in Japan are so dependent
on the fashion and leisure industries to satisfy their desires that the uchideshi
life appeals to very few. Also, many Japanese parents want their children
to get the best education in order for them to be hired by the top employers
in the country. Entering a dojo and making a career of teaching budo will
create a lot of parental opposition. Also many teachers teach as a hobby
and have a full-time job. Very few can afford a private dojo, hence uchideshi
accommodation is scarce.
If your organization does not have connections
with teachers in Japan, the easiest way is to contact one of the headquarter
dojos and go there to study as a regular student. I recommend The Aiki News
Dojo Finder as a good source of information. You will have to find temporary
accommodation, and you can be sure that your study of the Japanese language
will help you. After making some acquaintances, you will get to know the
network. If you are serious, your teachers will notice it and they may become
your best source of advice.
The type of teacher and dojo you should look
for also depends on your preferences. I personally believe that a professional
teacher who owns his dojo, teaches every day and has only a few uchi deshi
will be more committed and accessible.
If your organization is connected with a hombu
dojo in Japan, the matter will be easier. However, you will need a letter
of recommendation from your home teacher (very important in Japan). But be
aware that your teacher's reputation will also be at stake. You cannot back
out once you have committed yourself.
Staying in Japan
Japanese Immigration has very strict rules.
Depending on your country, you may obtain a visitor's visa (usually good
for 90 days) upon your arrival in Japan or you may have to apply for it before
leaving for Japan. You should contact the Embassy of Japan (Visa Section)
located in the capital city of your country of residence or the nearest consulate.
First inquire about the conditions to obtain a visitor's visa for yourself
and state your country of citizenship. Then you may also inquire if they
have any programs for bringing over language teachers from your country and
what types of visa are available. Never mention working, unless you already
have a contract with an employer.
There is no such thing as an uchideshi visa. A student's
visa can be obtained if you register with an official school or university.
Do not expect much sympathy from Japanese consular officials if you tell
them about your plans to study budo. First find out if anyone is involved
in some sort of budo training and ask to meet him/her. An invitation to lunch
is a good approach since in Japan establishing a good relationship should
always precede business talks. Again your home dojo teacher may have some
good advice for you. if no one seems to be familiar with budo, do not insist.
Japanese diplomats often lack information on budo matters and are rarely
aware of its importance in Japanese culture. However, there are exceptions,
and it is worth looking for them.
You must remember that if you are employed while
in Japan, whether teaching languages or doing any other kind of work, it will
interfere with your first priority, which is living and training at the dojo.
Your employer will expect you to stay late at night or socialize with fellow-employees,
students, customers, etc. If you refuse, he may make your life quite miserable
in all sorts of ways. Therefore, unless you know your employer well and
trust him, and unless you are sure that he understands your purpose and
is willing to help you, I do not think that it's a good idea to commit yourself
to a job before taking a first trip to Japan.
Your best strategy may be to enter Japan with
a 90-day visitor's visa. Usually it can be renewed for one more equal period
and you will need a guarantor (a working, tax-paying citizen of good reputation),
a return ticket, and proof that you have sufficient funds to support yourself.
Inquire at the nearest immigration office shortly after arriving in Japan
and obtain the necessary documents as soon as possible. if you want to stay
longer, you will have to leave the country. Inquire what kind of longer term
visa may be available in your case, gather your documents and take a short
trip to a nearby country such as Korea or Hong Kong. There you can apply for
your new visa at the Embassy of Japan, respectfully requesting them to process
your case rapidly. If this does not work, go back to Japan with a visitor's
visa and repeat the procedure. You still won't be allowed to work officially.
Keep up to date with regulations and changes— there are many!
When dealing with immigration officials, be
well dressed and always remain polite. Be firm but flexible. Never show any
impatience or frustration!
In Japan, Immigration checks everyone upon their
arrival and departure. The police may request you to show your passport,
or Alien Registration Card, which you must obtain if you plan on staying more
than 90 days, at anytime and immigration inspectors may also drop in unexpectedly,
especially if you have already applied for several visa extensions. If you
overstay your visa's expiration date, you will be arrested, jailed, and deported.
Your guarantor will run into problems and you will never be allowed into
the country again.
Final preparations
Once you know when you will leave, shop around
for an open (the longer, the better) round-trip ticket several months before
your departure. Call several airlines and be flexible. They compete fiercely
with each other and are hungry for cash. Local Japanese grocery stores and
supermarkets are also a good source of information—check their bulletin boards.
Check also about the possibility of buying a ticket with Hong Kong or Seoul
as your final destination. It costs little more than a round trip to Tokyo
and may come in handy when you have to leave the country in order to renew
your visa. Inquire about the penalties for changing your ticket and have
them written down by an airline representative, not by a travel agent. This
will reduce your chances of getting stranded or incurring heavy penalties.
Also, some international flights land in other major cities such as Osaka
or Nagoya. If you know where you are going, it may be advantageous to find
out about other flights to nearby cities. Consider the high cost of inland
transportation. Do your homework, since regulations change all the time.
Japanese clothes generally do not fit Westerners,
so you should bring along whatever you need—warm sweaters and underwear,
light cotton clothing, several keikogi, jogging suits, etc. Dryers are not
popular in Japan, due to the cost of energy. You will have to hang dry your
laundry. This process may take quite long, particularly during the rainy season
(June-July). Plan accordingly. Japanese people dress up for many occasions,
so a couple of good suits or dresses should also be part of your wardrobe.
Stock up on a variety of omiage (presents).
These will come in handy in many situations, such as meeting new teachers
and people, calling at someone's house, thanking someone for a favor, or
returning from a trip. This will show that you care and people will appreciate
you for that. Decide the value of the present according to the situation,
the status of the receiver and/or the importance of the favor for which you
are showing your appreciation. Something too expensive or too cheap may cause
embarrassment to the receiver. In any case, use common sense and follow your
heart. Also, bring some nice wrapping paper (quite expensive in Japan) and
learn the fine art of wrapping presents, a requirement in Japan.
If you are planning to take practice weapons
jo, bokuto, katana, etc.), wrap them well to protect them, but also to show
your intention not to use them during the trip. At the airport, when checking-in
with the airline, send them with the rest of your baggage, never attempt
to carry them on board with you. If you plan on taking a practice katana,
never take one with a sharp blade. Japanese customs will hold it until you
obtain a proper license—if you are unable to do so the weapon may be destroyed
or permanently confiscated.
Some last words of advice
All teachers have their own styles and philosophies.
Some appear to be so eccentric that one might at first question their sanity.
If you are determined to learn, see your teacher as a human being. Most of
the great budo teachers whom we know kept studying under their own teachers
in spite of their idiosyncrasies. Accept your teacher as he is, not as you
would like him to be. This way you can focus on your own learning.
Stay in touch with your teacher and dojo mates
back home. Even if no one writes back, send them a few lines once in a while.
If your teacher visits while you are at the dojo, make sure that you show
respect for him, even if you have an informal relationship back home. If some
of your home dojo mates visit, invite them, take them out, and be ready to
assume some of the expenses. Take leadership. Always make a point of visiting
your teacher first whenever you go home. Never display your newly acquired
knowledge. All this will pave the way for your final return. Remember that
other people will be changing too, but pace and direction often differ.
I believe that you have now an idea of what
to expect and how to prepare yourself if you decide that the uchideshi life
is for you. We cannot cover everything in this article, but with an open and
aware mind, you can solve most problems that will occur and learn from your
experiences. Read this article several times, paying particular attention
to the points that apply to you. This should give you a base of ideas that
will help you find your own answers to other questions that will come up.
In all cases, please think well while reading and remember that when there
is a will, there is a way. I invite experienced readers to send suggestions
that may benefit present and future uchideshi.
Patrick Augé
Yoseikan Academy
North American Headquarters
627 Silver Spur Road #308
Rolling Hills Estates, CA 90274
USA
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